A bereaved couple have donated 24 heart-warming books to Medway Maritime Hospital to help other families either prepare to say goodbye to their baby or following the loss of a child.
Francesca Newman and her partner Adam McCabe gifted the ‘Guess How Much I Love You’ books in memory of their son Arthur who sadly passed away after he was born at 33 weeks on 20 January 2022.
The books were funded thanks to donations from friends and family through a JustGiving page, which was set up by the couple following Arthur’s death.
Francesca, 32, from Gravesend, said: “My parents used to read it to me when I was little and we bought it for Arthur before he was born. After he was born we read the book to him so it holds really special memories for us.
“We know how difficult and heart-breaking it is losing a child. You feel like you are the only people in the world going through it. Our hope is that other families who may find themselves in the same situation as us, will find comfort in reading this lovely, special story to their little one either as they prepare to say goodbye to them or following the loss of their baby.”
Eleven months after Arthur’s death the couple welcomed their second son George who was born at the hospital on 29 December 2022.
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Francesca added: “Finding out I was pregnant with baby number two so quickly after losing Arthur was a real worry. But ever since my six -week scan, and even up to now, the care and support the hospital staff have given all three of us has been amazing.
“Although the books are in memory of Arthur, they are also our way of giving something back to the hospital and thanking staff for all that they did to help ease my fears and help George arrive safely. Having George has brought me back to life, I now smile and laugh again and that’s down to everyone who was involved with my care at the hospital.
“There’s no love like it when you have a baby and we know how difficult life is when they get taken away from you and all that you have left is the memories you created together before you had to say goodbye. Hopefully the books will help other families create memories during what is an extremely difficult and emotional time.”
Sarah Vaux, Interim Chief Nursing Officer, said: “We are extremely grateful to Francesca and Adam for their generous donation.
“I have no doubt that the books will help to support parents who experience a terrible loss and provide comfort at an incredibly distressing time.”
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